Couples Therapy

Relationships shape our happiness, health, and sense of belonging. Yet even strong couples hit rough patches—communication breaks down, intimacy fades, and resentments build.

Couples therapy, also called marriage counseling or relationship therapy, offers powerful tools to heal rifts, rebuild trust, and strengthen emotional connection. But how does it actually work—and is it right for you and your partner?

This in-depth guide explores the methods, benefits, process, and latest research behind couples therapy so you can make an informed decision about saving—and transforming—your relationship.

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

Costs range from $50–$250+ per session. Many therapists offer sliding scales. Insurance may reduce costs significantly.
Absolutely. Teletherapy has grown rapidly and research shows it’s as effective as in-person therapy for many issues (APA, 2024).
Many clients feel this way at first. Therapists are skilled at guiding conversations, so you don’t need to plan topics ahead of time.
It varies. Some people benefit in a few sessions; others work with a therapist for months or years. It depends on your goals and issues.

KEY TERMS

Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

EFT is one of the most researched and effective couples therapy methods. Developed by Dr. Sue Johnson, EFT helps partners:

  • Recognize negative emotional cycles

  • Identify unmet attachment needs

  • Create new patterns of secure connection

Gottman Method Couples Therapy

Created by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, this approach focuses on:

  • Building friendship and intimacy

  • Managing conflict constructively

  • Creating shared meaning in the relationship

Imago Relationship Therapy

Developed by Dr. Harville Hendrix, Imago Therapy explores how childhood experiences shape relationship dynamics.

Goals include:

  • Understanding subconscious triggers

  • Transforming conflict into healing

  • Practicing intentional dialogue